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tips to get through a break up?

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HeckyWithTheGoodBear · 19/05/2016 20:17

Don't want to give a massive back story as I've got massively flamed before which really wasn't helpful.

But I just wanted to ask for general tips as to how to get through a break up? A very decent break up as in today? Baby involved. Feeling pretty numb at the moment and honestly don't feel massively bothered (possibly relieved?) but I am sure the feelings will hit me in the next few hours/ days and any useful tips that you wise MNers have to get through it all will be very much appreciated. Especially as I know he's a bit of a dick and a new girl will probably come on the scene rather quickly and I won't have much say in him introducing her to our baby DD (which makes me feel sick.. For her aswell as me as I truely believe you should wait at least 6 months. But I can't make him do that).

Sorry if this post is all over the place.

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Dozer · 20/05/2016 06:57

His parents will be much more likely to refuse to be guarantors than carry on and yes, the landlord might not renew the contract with no guarantor. suggest you check your contract and seek some housing advice.

What kind of substance issues? Is he under treatment for his MH condition? Does he look after your DC much at present?