Hi!
Apologies in advance for the boring post but I really need some advice.
My partner and I are planning to have a friend visit us and take her up to London soon and he mentioned at some point weeks ago that it would be a good idea to book a group ticket as it's cheaper. Now I must admit I have a terrible memory but I am sure I mentioned I may be in London that week anyway but pointed out that it was a good idea (I have often found myself questioning my own memory of events and giving in to him based on the admission that my memory is bad). We live seperately but in the same area so it's tricky to organise.
The other day I confirmed I would actually be in London at the time anyway so would not need to be added to the group ticket. He replied (I assumed as a joke) that I should buy everyone lunch to make up for it and because he had already told our friend the prices for the group ticket as opposed to the full price. I havent replied yet but instinctively I want to say I never asked him to buy a group ticket in the first place and why did he tell our friend this before I'd confirmed? I know this would end in an argument and accusations that I am being unreasonable because this has happened so many times before but I really don't feel this is fair to me. There have been numerous times when he has told me I've said something which I am not 100% sure I have said and I have just given in to prevent an argument.
Judging by responses to my previous post, it would appear that he displays some emotionally abusive habits and I am wondering if this is an extension of those behaviours at all? Like I say, I am sure I didn't commit to the ticket idea but he has made me doubt myself and it's impossible to tell.