There's a guy I work with. I thought he was really attractive when we first met. There even seemed to be a spark between us. We got on like a house on fire from day one. I later, and not much later, learned that he's gay and in a relationship.
So how do I stop feeling so....enamoured around him? It's very difficult. He's very flirty and touchy - obviously just feels comfortable I suppose because he's gay and knows it doesn't imply anything - but for me it's quite difficult! We make eye contact all the time, he's always looking in my direction, touches my arm or does small playful things, stands around to make conversation.....I enjoy it mostly but I always feel a little sad at the end of the day because I know it's nothing.
So my question is, what does a person do to stop letting the flirts mean more than they do? Does that make sense? I know myself and I'll end up being some Romeo to Rosaline....