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PLEASE PLEASE HELP

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WinterChill · 10/05/2016 08:26

Please help I feel like I'm drowning and don't know what to do. I'm literally on my own with no outside help.

Left husband and asked him to leave. He refused so I went with kids. We're currently in hotel. He won't give me my bank cards, says he can't find them and has emptied our joint account. I literally have 50 quid to feed us and need to find money to stay another night. I really don't know what to do. I can't go back. I just cant

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Iamdobby63 · 10/05/2016 17:09

So sorry you are going through this. What happened?

Does he go out to work during the day, if so can you go back to collect some belongings.

liberatedwine · 10/05/2016 18:11

If you've been able to book a second night at the hotel, then at least you have managed to access some money and have a little breathing space.

Is it possible to arrange to meet your husband in a neutral, public environment, to discuss what the next step is. You and the children should go home, and he should be the one to live out of a suitcase, if there is no hope of reconciliation.

Also regarding the iPhone charger, ask the hotel staff if they can charge it for you, or nip out and buy a USB charging lead from Poundland, and charge it off your laptop.

Hope you are okay.

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