I'm not upset after a breakup

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Well I posted before about him, and what he was like in a word a narcissist.

I don't feel sad or hurt or angry or shocked. I just feel normal, if anything a bit relieved like I am not being judged

He left a month ago for another country. In my eyes I did the hardest part back then. We spoke when he felt like it, once a week or less. We split up officially 3 days ago after another argument. I was with him for 2 years and I feel nothing.

Is it normal?

I don't think anything is abnormal when it comes to stuff like that. I definitely felt relief when I split from my boyf of 2 years. I instantly felt lighter.

if you recognised that the relationship was no good, then I think that is perfectly normal.

I guess you might start to feel different as time goes on. if certain things remind you of the good times etc. but it wont take long to remind yourself of the shit times again!

good on you xxx

I was married for 10 years and felt nothing but happiness and relief when it ended. I used up all my reserves of unhappiness when we were together!

It's good to know I am not the only one.

With breakups in the past I have been distraught and in turmoil and they barely made it to a year.

I thought that this would be the same but it's not. Even my mum says I am taking it well.

I thought there was something wrong with me