Changed my name for this.
I went away for a few days on Monday, just got back today.
DH cannot be trusted with access to money as he would just waste it all (he doesn't work, I do) so all money goes into my bank account to pay bills etc and he has to ask when he wants something (he ran up £k's worth of debt before and this is the only way to control his spending).
He was very "babied" by his mum, didn't leave home until he was 30, has never had to cook/clean or work and just spends most of his time on his playstation or computer.
So anyway I told him that I was going away for a few days to London, I filled the fridge and cupboards and left him with £50 for emergencies.
Got to London on Monday night, yesterday he phoned me begging me to go back home, he said he couldn't cope on his own, had ran out of food etc, I asked him about the £50 and he'd aparantly spent it on a computer game! I asked how he'd managed to eat everything I had bought in two days and he said he hadn't, there just wasnt anything he liked and the only things he did like were too hard for him too cook .
I told him I would not be coming home and he would have to sort himself out, anyway got back today and found out he'd only gone and put a microwave meal in the washing machine and a load of clothes in the microwave . He's done it for attention yet he expects me to believe it was an accident.
How can I get him to grow up??