You can feel happy ,liberated and able to cope out of that bad relationship !

[maltesers]

I split up from my partner last July when he finally, amongst other problems, got aggressive. We have a six yr old ds and i have 2 older teenagers from a previous marriage. Still on the Prozac but coming off now i feel happier. My self respect and contentment has returned and i feel good bout myself. Just wanted to cry out to all you mums thinking of splitting up from dp/dh. You CAN cope with kids on your own and you are worth more than sticking with some awful abusive partner who treats you badly. The future is rosier without those nasty men. ! !
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Hear Hear Maltesers!!!! I totally agree with you there. I thought that there would be no light at the end of the tunnel but there certainly is, I have not felt this good in ages (apart from really bad headache this am) I have 2 gorgeous dd's who help keep me motivated and and a beaming smile on my face

We split just over a year ago, I'm at college now and just applying to uni to study nursing, life cound not be any better!! need painkillers though

Me too me too! Have been single for over a year and a half at this point, and am constantly surprised by how much I am enjoying life and my sons. I'm starting to see what a joy-leach exDP was, and the old familiar feeling of fustration have gone. I have a lot of responsibilities now but at least now I'm not doing all the work while knowing there was a big lump sitting down somewhere nearby.
My children are happier, and I am a lot more content with my life and strangely enough, I seem to have a lot more freedom now.