when do you accept that it's going nowhere?

[mrsfleming32]

After nearly 5 years for me. Can't go into it in depth now but the last few days have really opened my eyes.
Feel like a glorified hotel, chef, laundry service, sometime lover and he puts nothing into the relationship.
Very sad

Maybe you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel?

Yes agree with need. He may have no idea how you're feeling.

If you haven't told him already, you must. If he doesn't bother to change his ways then he's not making an effort and you need to have a good think about what you really want. It's so easy for men to fall in to the routine of having a 'second mother'