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What if the kiss doesn't sparkle but the sex does?

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dillydolly88 · 19/04/2016 06:40

Will it work or is there a warning in there? If his kiss, although very pleasant doesn't set your lips on fire, does it mean you're lacking chemistry? I kiss him but something about our lips joining feels flat. It doesn't have that head-tingling feeling I've felt before. But the sex most definately does. The sex is incredible and gives me the deepest feeling of being joined. All other parts of our time together are very pleasant, no red flags. I've had boyfriends in the past with a fabulous satisfying kiss but then the sex wasn't all that, but this is the first time that's been reversed. I'm a bit disappointed if I'm honest. I want to feel the magic in the kiss. What do you think?

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CheersMedea · 19/04/2016 10:56

I think the Mills & Boon comment is unfair. This is simply a question of what matters to you and how important it is. That's all. So only you OP can answer that.

It's no different from my partner is both A & B. I love B but can't stand A should I leave him?

A. Smoker who refuses to quit B. Most decent man I've ever met.
A. Picks his nose and wipes it on the sofa. B.Makes me laugh more than my best friend as we have same sense of humour.
A. Has bad breath due to digestive condition. B. Most enormous penis that gives me the most intense vaginal orgasms I've ever had.
A. Crap kisser. B. Great shag.

It's not Mills & Boony to say "actually I really like kissing and it is an important part of foreplay for me but this isn't working" any more that it is to say "I really like to fall asleep cuddly in bed but he doesn't like any physical contact when trying to sleep" or "I have a serious latex fetish and my partner finds it repellent".

All of this things are about "how much does it matter to the person concerned?"

CheersMedea · 19/04/2016 10:56

*these things

Zaphodsotherhead · 19/04/2016 10:58

Just be glad you get a kiss of any kind. Can't remember the last time I was kissed before he went in for the kill...

Seriously though, if he's a nice guy and you like everything else about him, what's a kiss between friends?

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 19/04/2016 11:07

Zap- I'd be going in for the kill too but in a different context Wink

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