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Feeling very low

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Tooticky600 · 15/04/2016 19:37

First time poster here - things have come to a bit of a head in my life and relationship and I'm feeling like hiding away from everybody. My eldest is away at uni and my youngest seems to have decided he wants to live at his dad's all the time. My family aren't around, I don't have any close friends anymore, and my partner and I had an argument this morning. I feel he is very insensitive and unemotional. Basically the argument was about sex, he doesn't think he's getting enough and I'm not happy about the lack of foreplay and emotional connection. I kind of feel like I get more pleasure on my own if you know what I mean, as my erogenous zones don't get much attention if any. I've tried to talk to him about it before but he says he's not responsible for my orgasm. Sometimes he can be very caring in ways, but right now I'm feeling very alone. I also miss my kids terribly, and wonder if he is one of the reasons why they stay away.

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springydaffs · 16/04/2016 21:23

Google it Wendy Smile

WendyWolf · 17/04/2016 22:28

Thanks springy I have. I was more wondering about people's personal experience/recommendations.

hellsbellsmelons · 18/04/2016 09:00

I've never done it but it is recommended to find a local one and attend the actual course rather than do it on line.
It will help you understand what abuse is in it's many many forms.
It will help you spot red flags early on so you can avoid other abusive relationships.
It helps you set your boundaries. It will also help you self esteem.
On-line is better than nothing if you cannot attend the course in person.

WendyWolf · 18/04/2016 19:25

Thank you hells That is really helpful Smile

FredaMayor · 18/04/2016 19:55

he says he's not responsible for my orgasm

Throw this one back, OP. He is immature and as selfish as the day is long. You will find another decent man who will engage properly with you and pride himself on satisfying you, I am certain.

WendyWolf · 25/04/2016 17:48

How are things? Any change?

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