Had a talk with dh about his lack of interest in our sex lives, I said I instigate 99% of the time which I do, whenever I mention it he tries to change the subject or be silly. I said do you think I have a bigger sex drive he said no ? so what am I doing wrong here? He's just not interested most of the time and it's getting worse, like a slow recline and it's getting the same old too, nothing new and exciting? I can't understand what I'm doing wrong??