My dh is lovely, always saying how much I mean to him how he loves me and wants to be together forever lots of cuddles etc etc but when it comes to sex I do all the instigating. I literally throw myself at him and get let down a lot. I sent him some dirty pictures but he never even mentioned them or seemed excited by them. I don't get it? I'm not being modest but I'm a good looking slim girl with all the right bits in the right places! I've never been in a relationship like this and it's causing me problems with my self esteem.
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AntiqueSinger ·
10/04/2016 12:57
Sorry last post was all about me
Definitely the porn has to stop. Also if work is making him stressed perhaps he could reduce hours? Sorry but other than this I don't what else to suggest expect couples sex counselling. I think relate off this service.
Other than this I'm afraid you'll have to question whether you want another 10 years etc to continue like this, because as you get older physical changes happen, and if he's barely able to perform now when you're both reasonably healthy and in great shape, the future does not a passion flower make
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