The timing is so bad (we're so busy for the next few months), but I feel so stressed and dishonest holding on to tell him. I keep welling up when I look at him because I really think he has no idea .
Our relationship is, well, OK. 'Too good to leave, too bad to stay' pretty much sums it up. We've been married a year (I now feel this was a huge mistake) together for 7, with two children. I just don't love him like a partner any more and haven't done for a long while. We are two totally different people, with different (read polar opposite) life goals, interests and views. He's a nice man, and loves the children very much, but there are very fundamental things about him that frustrate me to the point where I feel we're incompatible . Our relationship is like that of two good friends. I said in a previous post I genuinely believe we will be happier people apart. I truly believe that.
This will cause so much hurt and upheaval I'm struggling to find the strength to start it all. I feel so sad for him.