I fucking knew it. What a complete bastard.

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I've just asked OH to leave. He just admitted a girl when he was supposed to be meeting his friend to play snooker. He has form: 5 years ago he led a double life for about six months seeing two (significantly younger) girls from work. We have a 3 year old and he was his fucking world. Shit. What the fuck shall I do? I've asked him to leave and he wouldn't until I threatened to call his mum. This is totally going to out me, but I'm past caring.

Your son will grow up with an understanding of what makes relationships fail and will be better grounded when making his own decisions.

Sorry to hear your going through this
If he treats you this way with ow then you deserve better!
It's good your selling your house currently at least you'll be able to make a break away.
You say about your 3 year old being his world, just because you will be separated doesn't mean this has to change he can still be a good dad.

Sounds like the house is in joint names. Good, you get to keep 50% of the equity, right?

If you've saved funds towards the wedding make sure you keep the money somewhere safe as that will come in handy.

What an arse.

You are so so lucky to have found all this out before getting married and buying a new house, that is really the best thing to come out of it. It saves massive complications and expense and further heartache.

Hope you had some sleep last night. How are you feeling today?

Hope you're ok today. He will probably try to make you change your mind, he won't have thought you'd really be brave enough to leave him. Even if you feel dreadful inside with all the worry, don't show him any sign of weakness. He no doubt enjoys the thrill of the chase, so you'll be his prey now. But don't trust him, he's a player.

You poor thing! Hope you're feeling ok and getting support in real life.

He's not a good man, not one you'd want to waste ££££ on marrying when he's not going to keep it in his pants. What a pathetic creature he is.

How are things today?

I thought my husband was amazing.
He left without warning. Cries over not seeing kids, but no effort to return or rein gage. I think he's a serial monogamist, and got bored.
Whatever. Focus on YOU, because you can't change him.
There are some excellent mindfulness apps. Learn to love you, and stop focusing on the flawed ex. If he changes, it will be too late. His loss!