Looking for some honest advice please.
After 2 lengthy emotionally abusive relationships with men who had quite dominant and similar personalities, I started OLD and began talking to a man just after Xmas. We live some distance apart and work different patterns, so getting together was difficult, but we met 5 or 6 times. I felt that things were going too slowly, as I was used to someone being around most of the time and said to him that I thought we were not gaining ground and was not sure it could work. He replied that he did not want to give up on things and felt that we were on the brink of something special and asked me to go away with him for a a couple of nights, which we did, last weekend. We were both nervous, as by that point we had not even kissed! I had taken down my profile but his is still on there (I can see it without logging on)
Anyway, off we went and he was absolutely lovely. We got on well and I realised what a great kind guy he is. By the end of the weekend, my heart was fluttering and was liking him more and more. We did not have sex as it was the wrong time of the month but we did kiss and cuddle and he said that there is no rush. He insisted on paying for the hotel and we were holding hands on the way back.
He said to let him know I got home safely and I sent a short text saying I had really enjoyed the weekend and was home and he replied to say that he had been out and eaten again.
Since then, nothing. I texted yesterday, a jokey message and no reply. So I guess he did not feel the same as me. I am upset and find it hard to reconcile the great caring guy with someone who ignores a text and leaves me wondering where I went wrong!
I am not sure what I am asking really but any advice would be appreciated.