My marriage ended just over 2 and a half years ago. I met a man last October, and we have just been seeing each other, things are coming to a head just now and we are trying to work out if we commit or not. I am realising now that I liked things without the commitment because I am so terrified of commiting to someone, for it to just fall appart further down the line. But I also know that I don't really want to spend the rest of my life alone, however I do consider this because of the fear of failing in another relationship. He is the first person I have met since the breakdown of my marriage that I have considered commiting to. I really like him, we get on incredibly well, he is the one I want to discuss things with, I trust him, we have fun together.....but right now he is waiting for me to tell him what I think, and I'm feeling sick with the fear of possibly deciding to go for it.....but also thinking of him not being in my life is hard to imagine now. He doesn't know either whether to commit or not. Just don't know where to go from here!?