Background Ex left 8 weeks ago for ow, had little contact with our son (2) not met our daughter yet (9 days old). Been very awkward with sorting contact, I had to contact him threw his parents and wasn't allowed to call when he had our son.
Basically I went to a lawyer to get contact organised which stated everything had I had said to him in person.
He didn't agree with me on anything that I was asking like I wasn't organising contact threw his parents. That he didn't introduce ow to my kids and also that my number was unblocked and we discuss our children ourselves.
Now he lost his temper at the door with me the last time he seen our son (4 weeks ago) and said I was stopping our children seeing their dad.
I had his daughter and emailed him and asked if he was coming to see her (his parents and sister came up when she was born) and he said no because he couldn't stand to be around me.
Now I have received his lawyers letter where he is talking about how he would like us to organise contact ourselves and not threw 3rd parties and that he wants to meet his daughter as soon as possible and that he agrees we should be able to text each other for the kids and basically agreeing to everything I had said at the door!
So did he just say all the horrible things (like he can't stand to speak to me I make him sick he hates me he's taking my kids off me) to cause an argument? Or is he playing games now? I am so confused!!
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is he playing games??
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hurtandconfued2016 · 11/03/2016 16:32
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