Things between DH and I haven't been great for over a year. He's quiet, snappy and uses his phone excessively. It feels like he's completely detached from the DC and I but he over compensates by telling me how much he loves me and how wonderful I am far too often to sound sincere.
Our youngest was born a year ago and we made the effort to go out for a couple of hours for DHs birthday in Feb. We DTD for the first time in about ten months. For the past three weeks I've had loads of greeny yellow sticky cervical mucus looking discharge which I never ever had before we DTD. I thought at first that I might be pregnant, but I'm not. My tummy feels like I had a permanent stitch and I generally feel run down.
He's been out with friends several times in the past ten months, he's worked extra days but then the money never seems to materialise to make a difference to our lives and as I mentioned before, he's on his phone loads.
I caught him flirting via his phone in the early days and when I was pregnant he used to pester me for sex and tell me how desperate he was because I was the only one who could satisfy him, he insisted he hated porn. Then I discovered he was masterbating to it daily, even sneaking off during the day. He was (is?) very highly sexed. He'd get aroused even if I only brushed past him and would often send me intimate photos etc. I can't believe he's gone ten months with nothing.
Could these be symptoms of an STD or am I worrying over nothing?