Submissive

[juicemyapple]

Hi there! I have a FWB - no intention of having a serious relationship with him. He has a very high sex drive. I find that even just 5 minutes in his company - gives me a HUGE buzz and that being with him - is one of the best feelings I've ever had. However - he is asking me to do things that I initially think are risky (meeting up with other couples he has found on the internet for sex). I say no initially. But it turns me on, and then I find myself agreeing. Is this dangerous? I can't understand why I am behaving in this way?

I think that you need to take it very slowly. Boundaries is a BIG issue. You're only just getting into the idea so you'll have no idea on boundaries. Last thing you want is to feel used, worthless, cheap, or get carried away and worse.

Take it slow. You can Skype other couples even. Just research everything. Some site do munches, where people all meet up socially but not sex, unless people leave together. That may be a way to dip your toe.

Be very careful with your sexual health too (god I sound like your mother!) because those tgat play around at at higher risk of passing something very nasty on.

Might be wirth setting yourself 6 months where you don't follow up, to give yourself time to think without getting carried away by an ideal

Er. I'm not the one asking about group sex on a parenting forum.

Fetlife is a place where you can find other sexual partners with the same sort of desires that you have so it really was just a friendly post.

Apologies if I seemed 'dodgy'.