I'm so pissed off :(

[Letsgetthisstraight88]

I'm fed up of my husband and his horrible habits, he left the laptop on I went to turn it off and what's on the screen a women with a huge cock wanking in another women's mouth! I clicked the tabs another women fingers deep inside of herself why is my husband such a fucking pig? Argh I hate men they are disgusting!??!!

Sorry you said you found it when you went to turn the laptop off but then said he'd just popped to the toilet. Which is it?

If he's choosing porn over sex with you on a regular basis then it's time to leave, or throw him out.

I really don't like him! He's obsessed with porn no sex he doesn't want sex.

So when are you leaving?
You don't like him and he apparently doesn't like you.
Time to go.

I think I was just in shock I don't know why I posted I just don't find it 'normal' I'm just mortified and trying to not be bothered. I went to turn it off as I thought he was finished obviously not! I just didn't want him to know I'd seen it. He cries when I say I'll leave says he will stop and he loves me, the only reason I've stayed.

Fuck that. He's gay. LTB.

So what if he "loves you"

He doesn't want to fuck you and you are disgusted by him.

What is there to stay for ?

E god you're completely right fuvking hell, I really am disgusted by him I know it might sound over the top but the things I've seen my god! I just don't understand

You've put "normal" in speech marks, so you know that it's all relative. The point is not whether your husband conforms to average expectations or not. The point is that he likes very different things to you, it's driven you apart and there's nothing you can do now to make it better. You can stay like that because you feel sorry for him, and just vent occasionally about how disgusting you find him, or you can sort things out. He should have been more honest to you about his tastes from the start; that way you wouldn't have got in this mess, and he might have found a partner he didn't disgust.

Yes maybe he can find someone who likes that sort of thing because I really really don't, I might of been to accept it more if I actually knew about it a lot sooner but he completely kept this all from me

He cries when I say I'll leave

Pass him a tissue. He can use it for the tears, and the wanking.

FYI, most trans porn (she male is not a very nice way to put it) is watched by straight men. Gay men aren't attracted to women.

There's some discussion of trans porn here for those interested.

I honestly can't tell you why I'm with him

Everything else you've said is surplus to requirements IMO.
Good luck OP, you've got a lot to be sorting out and soon.

Penis = male. He is of the gay!

Yet another woman that thinks she has to put up with crap just to have a man, or is he. who knows!

This is more than somethings g being a bit gross. This is serious relationship issues.

I completely agree this is more than just that, I just don't understand him the things he looks at I honestly never thought it of him I never ever would have. I dread being near him but I don't make it obvious for his sake. I definitely don't think he's gay maybe a bit 'experimental' in his own mind with the cocks etc but I don't want to be part of anything to do with the he she trans whatever this porn is. You know I've had some time to think and I remember a while back he was speaking to someone online (I just saw u deleted parts) I thought I wonder who that is because they look like a man in drag he said it was an old lesbian friend so I thought nothing of it. It's strange because there's so many unanswered things here and new things just seem to keep popping up...

I think what is more disgusting is that he has a tiny baby in the house and doing this. Doesn't really care about his family does he? He's obsessed, he won't stop. He will probably just hide it better that's all. Leaving would be your best option.