SIL is a raving nut case

[jenk1]

DH Brothers ex-girlfriend that is.

A complete and utter nutcase who has tried it on with DH sisters,s fiancee, various male friends of BIL and now she,s decided to turn her attentions to DH.

Got a message on our landline phone about 8.30pm last night, one of those SMS messages that "speak" the message.

"You have totally ruined my life, i feel nothing but hate for you, tell your Dad to come and pick up your stuff"

So straightaway we knew it was her and rang the mobile, someone else answered it and acted dumb.

Then another message this time at 2.30am and the phone kept ringing until we answered it so we did,
"I dont want to see you again, i pure hate you, its for good this time, tell your dad to pick up your stuff"

So i texted the phone and asked the person to stop sending text messages.

Again another one at 8.30am this time using DH,s name and telling him "there are plenty more fish in the sea, im gone for good this time"

Im absolutely fuming, we phoned FIL and he said straightaway it would be her and BIL also agreed.

I know nothings been going on, for one DH is always with me or myself or the kids are with him, she is a total headcase and im absolutely fuming and i dont know what to do, i feel like going round to her house and haveing it out with her but DH and the rest of the family are saying no, she,s a nutter, let it go, but i cant.

Oh and couple of weeks ago she text DH and asked him to call around with DD, he showed me the text straightaway and we decided not to reply to her.
Oh forgot to add that she regularly takes drugs as well.

She sounds like a complete nutcase.

It must be horrible but you have faith in your dh and know he did nothing and that this is all in her head.

If she doesn't get a reaction from either of you then probably she'll give up.

Not a nice situation to be in though

i 100% know he didnt do anything, for one she hasnt been around for months, she has asconded to the next town to be with her druggie mates and she abandoned her little boy for over a week and left him with BIL.

She made a great effort a few months ago of getting friendly with me and DH and i felt sorry for her but DH has never and still has no time for her, he used to tell me not to bother with her but i felt sorry for her, like an idiot, FIL has told me and DH that she was trying to get close to us as she knew we had our house up for sale and was hoping that we would lend her money etc, he warned her away from us ages ago, we only found this out this morning, he said "jenk you know he wouldnt touch her with a bargepole dont you, he is devoted to you" and i know that, we are hardly ever apart but im still so angry she,s trying to cause trouble between us, DH says if i go round then im playing into her hands.

Don't flame the fire. Steer clear of the nutter and she can't hurt you or your family.

also what i cant get out of my head is that she knows all about the child abuse case with the police against DH,s uncle earlier this year and she knows what we have been through and she still tries this?

You can get her phone number blocked from her phone. BT are good at dealing with malicious and or nuisance calls.

You can get the police involved if she continues to harrass you both in such a manner.

Her poor little boy too. Having such a case for a mum.

Horrible experience for you. Hope you can nip it in the bud.