I was friends with a man in his early 30s,I myself am early 30s like to think I'm sensible although sometimes I have my moments.
We would text and have chats on the phone.
I have known him since school.
We would talk more and more often and our chats over time became more intense.
I developed feelings for him but I had a boyfriend and a 3 year old daughter and he had a girlfriend with 2 kids.
I told him nothing would happen whilst he was in a realtionship and whatever he did was on his shoulders.
I ended things with my boyfriend because I knew I wasn't happy.
We continued texting and I knew he was confused and didn't know what to do.
I backed off and ignored his texts and just moved on because I felt guilty and didn't want to be that person who steals people's man.
I changed my number and just blocked it out.
8 weeks later he contacts me via Facebook and says he has split and can we talk.
Stupidly I agree and he comes to my house.
We have a chat and he is "honest" we spent the whole day.
We sleep together and then boom next day he admits they haven't split and that he can't have another man bring up his kids.
Anyway I tell him to F off and that he is scum.
Now I know I shouldn't of replied to his texts and I shouldn't of allowed any of it.
I still feel really hurt and I know I have no right to feel like this.
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Analucy · 28/02/2016 12:52
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