Found out stb ex h is now a sex tourist

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I don't really know why i'm posting or what advise anyone can give, but does anyone have any experience of this, or just kind words.

I had a long thread in the autumn about the discovery of my cheating h, and I received some excellent advise. In fact it was so good he confessed to two affairs.

We are still living in the same family home (it's up for sale) and although I have suspected something like this for a week or so, I've just found the evidence and I feel absolutely sick.

Yes, I know it's nothing to do with me now, but Russian brides, I'm just at a loss. It's making me feel ill thinking about it.

Does anyone remember my thread, some lovely mnetters helped me then, has anyone experienced this and can understand how I feel.

No advice. But all I can say is .. "what is wrong with these men"

So sorry you are going through this. Surely he could have waited until things were settled.

You poor thing. The only thing I can think to say is thank goodness you know and that you're getting shot of him! Here's to a happier future for you.

I remember you. I am sorry. No big surprises here. Push on with getting yourself the fuck away from thisn inadequate individual.

If he's trying to find a mail order Russian bride that's not sex tourism, it's desperation born of idiocy and he'll get what he deserves.

In the meantime all you can do is try to expedite your divorce. Have you lined up alternative accomodation for when the house sells?

This man is 58. I don't understand why he can't wait until we are living separately.

I've been reading another thread about men treating their exes with contempt and wonder if this is deliberately being done.

Can he just bring a Russian bride to the uk.

This man is 58. I don't understand why he can't wait until we are living separately.

I've been reading another thread about men treating their exes with contempt and wonder if this is deliberately being done.

Can he just bring a Russian bride to the uk.

As far as I know (and please don't quote me!) he can travel to Russia to find a bride and marry there, but he'll have to prove he has a disposable annual income of c£19,000 to sponsor his new spouse in order for her to be able to settle in the UK.

He can't remarry until the Absolute has been pronounced and I suggest you let the stupid twat get on with it

This man is 58. I don't understand why he can't wait until we are living separately

Mmm, I don't know the situation of your stbex, but a friend's ex is 67 and says that, as far as he is concerned, it is better to be badly accompanied than to be alone". I don't think he has ever been alone in his life.

It's not really sex tourism though is it? I've seen some really happy marriage from those sort of arrangments (usually Russian/East European) and some hellish ones (usually Thai/Chinese).

It might not be sex tourism but it's still pretty grim and shows that he wants a relationship where he holds more of the power. I think I'd pity him more than anything. What a sad twat.

You sound best out of that. What a sad, pathetic excuse for a man.