Was left by exdp last year.
I've worked hard to remain amicable and we get on well.
He treated me awful when he left, had fallen out of love and in love with a co worker. Lied. And just didn't care that he had cast his family aside.
It was more than falling out of love it was as if he hated me.
Anyway a year on, were settled new home new job and kids have regular contact with the dad.
He's still with her albeit still on the hush.
I'm really happy, I have a job I love and just really content and settled in life compared to where I was or have been.
My ex bought me a gift the other week nothing grand or expensive but the thought was there and it really just made me smile I could tell he was pleased to give it to me.
Well a few days later he had asked me if we should all go out for the day. We had a great day all together and it was nice that we can do this for the children.
The other evening I got an email, it was not huge just basically asking how the week is and how happy he is to see me happy again. How wonderfully confident I am and just that he is sorry for hurting me all those months ago etc.
It's the first time he's apologised.
I wonder if this is him regretting what he had done.