Long story short, my emotionally abuse husband has come so close to making me leave before. We decided on a fresh start this week. He changed his Facebook password a few months ago for no reason and he had left it on yesterday so I decided to look....
A girl who works for him has been sending him messages, and him back. It appears they've been meeting in secret. At one point her told her they had to go 'underground' as he's too well known in this part of town. I feel like I have been hit by a car. I can't stop crying. This time last year I prayed for him to cheat so I could leave but nothing prepares you. He switches between pleading and anger and swears there was no physical contact.
In a way that just makes it worse. He sacrificed his son and our marriage for some cheap flirtation. I contacted her and got a stream of abuse back which for me confirms guilt.
I am at my parent's house now and my little boy (2.5) is sleeping. It's just awful. It's over.