I'm so lonely, please help!

[Ineedtobehappy]

Hello there,
I don't know where to start to be honest! My Dh is in the forces but we rent a house instead of living in a quarter. Where we live is my dh hometown so has his family etc on his doorstep, mine however live on the other side of the country. I hate it, I've followed him everywhere throughout his career but feel we are now living here to meet his needs and not mine. I don't work, although I am actively seeking a job!
I want to move home, he doesn't. I have no money of my own and feel so isolated, he is very controlling with money etc ( I have to account for every penny)
He has said if I want to move back home the I've to pack my bags and f**k off. I have a teenage child also.
There is so much more to this than I've said but really don't want anyone to know who I am.
I was just wondering if anyone had any practical advice to help me perhaps?
I'm so sorry for the rant but it's taken me ages to pluck up the courage to post on here.

[Baconyum]

Where are you in relation to his current base? Contact ssafa and the hive and possibly the chaplain may be able to help too. They all helped me loads when I left my ex. Also council/shelter can advise which landlord will accept HB.