Re-registered.
I'm going to keep this short but 'thank you' mumsnet. I was obsessed with someone for a few years. If he clicked his fingers, I'd come running. He got in contact with me recently and we arranged to meet at a hotel last night. I said that I only wanted to meet as old friends and go out for a meal.
I went to his room, heart POUNDING, but insisted on going out for a meal. He thought 'meal first'. I drank too much with nerves but paid for the meal and came home. I sent a text from the train saying how much I'd enjoyed the evening and have had NO reply. No 'thank you', no checking to see if I got home ok. All I lost was £60 but I've now shut the lid on a mad time. Pissed off to see in hindsight that he only ever did call for sex but the look on his face was priceless. I couldn't have done that without reading advice on here.