This morning he came and woke me up ( I was up at 3,4 and 5am with dd2 AND I've got flu. I asked him to help make the bed and he refused, saying 'what's the point, i'm getting in there again soon', he's on nights tonight.
I told him it would only take a minute and I would appreciate it if he did the same when he gets up, he told me in no uncertain terms that he would not make the bed for me and I would have to do it myself as he couldn't be bothered.
THEN this morning he has nipped into town and threw a major hissyfit because he couldn't find his mobile phone, he was the last one to have it so I have no idea where he put it, he stormed out slamming the doors and making the windows shake and I could hear him chuntering up the driveway, so I was on tenterhooks, wondering what mood he will be in when he gets home. I can't win.
He promised the kids he would get them some cocopops as a treat and of course, as soon as he got in they were asking for them, as kids do, when they know they are getting a treat He started of on one again about them pestering him and couldn't i have given em something (how can I when he was getting what they wanted)i told him this, but he wouldn't have it and started slamming about.
This is only a fraction of the behaviour that I have to put up with when he is working. AND this is only with him doing one day and one night shift, imagine what it's like when he does four days and four nights.
I have tried talking to him about it in the past, but, he has said more than once, 'the world stops when he is at work, nothing else matters'
He went to bed at 12pm and has said in no uncertain terms he must NOT be disturbed until 4pm, he asked me to get his tea on the go for when he comes down so i told him to 'piss off', which went down like a lead balloon,
RANT OVER just not feeling well and he is pissing me off.