Don't flame me please. I have a friend who has just come out of an abusive marriage and has embarked upon an emotional affair with a married man. I don't know the details, but I know she is damaged from her marriage - its quite clear that is why she is doing this, she has zero self esteem and is mistaking this for something real. I want to stop her going down this road as quickly as possible. I have read on here recommendations to 'other women' to get themselves to therapy to address self-esteem issues and identify what it is that makes them go there. But where do I start finding the right kind of therapist? Have looked up relationship therapy but that's all for couples. Naturally I'm also talking to her but think this might be beyond me and my advice. She is a good person, I want to see her make the right choices.