She's been doing my nut in and she's still here! Don't know when she plans to go and not only that, when she does decide to go she'll start the victim act, claiming that we're driving her out.
On the plus side, she adores 9 month old DD and she does all our washing and ironing, not that I want her to though, she just likes to keep busy and can also use it to complain that she's just a skivvy when she decides to leave.
On the minus side, she's manipulative, miserable, tactless and much more.She has no qualms about giving her opinions on me or my decisions, but would create an enormous fuss if I did the same.
DP's attitude is that I as the responsible adult and not the nutty MIL, should endeavour to keep the peace no matter what she says, but I have been strongly tempted to ask her to leave. I'd hate the tension that would create though, and I don't begrudge her good relationship with dd.
Sorry if above sounds cliched, but she's driving me mad!