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I want him to take his stuff!

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MadameZeCow · 05/02/2016 09:48

DH left and moved into the first flat he looked at (granted his choice was limited as he receives HB due to disability)
It has one bedroom and is tiny and now he's saying he doesn't have the room to take all his stuff.
Bearing in mind his 'stuff' is a load of collectable that caused a lot of tension in the marriage because he hoards these items. My utility cupboard is full, floor to ceiling with these items and various other spaces across the house.

I need to sort my house out, get organised, into a routine, but can't when there's no room for me to store things.

He's also putting off taking his cats, one of which has just pissed somewhere upstairs and I can't find where exactly to clean it.

Am feeling frustrated and overwhelmed because the house is a mess and I want to get organised but it seems impossible :(

OP posts:
Goodbetterbest · 06/02/2016 17:51

I'm going to use the storage facility for one month idea. Thank you!

RandomMess · 06/02/2016 17:56

I would pack it all into boxes as they will stack in the corner of a room meaning you can get more organised giving everything else a proper home.

Tell him that on x date you will be delivering them to his doorstep - whether it be weeks or months away.

You need to separate and create distance.

Is there loft space in his new place or at his parents?

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