He's blocked me

[Angieyy1]

Hi posted yesterday about my 2 year relationship that's has ended ..... I sent him some messages yesterday just explain how he's lied to me and led me on and how he spoke about moving in, in front of my 13 year old son and how I was heartbroken ect .... So I never got a reply and I think he has blocked me now as my tests started to go through as green .... I know it's over I felt the need to tell him just what he has done and the consequence of that on my life but what kind of cold callous person can lie and pretend everything is ok when it's not and say thoses things and then just regard you like you didint mean anything to them.....because I never did .... I feel so low Iv actually got a pain in my heart and I feel physically sick. My head is pounding ..... Their is such a silence in my mind..... I can't explain it it's awful.... I have suffered with depression in the past and do not want to go there again but right now I can't even think straight xx

sad thing is if he came back I would 100% take him back! he walked out on me previously when I was 20 weeks pregnant with our son!
so I just assumed it was the same this time too but 4 weeks later he's still not back.
he is also now staying with this girl and choosing to spend his days off with her instead of his son.

Don't be hard on yourself I took my sons dad back and he had cheated on me twice....I wanted it to work I wanted a family but the 3rd time was too much. I was extremely weak and vunerable after my son so he basically did what he wanted and took advantage and that's not a good trait to have or for me some one I wanted to marry ...

You will find your strength some how...... And will be strong enough to not want him but it will be in your own time..... And he may take longer to come back this time because he knows you will take him back so he's in no rush and it's just awful and shows who he is has a person xx

There's some dreadful advice being peddled on this thread! For god's sake, stop taking these deadbeats back after they've cheated on you.

Hey im heartbroken too
After two years he just told me that he needs to change his life and has ghosted me.

Im so upset. I do not know why im so shocked. He was a part of my life but i was never a part of his. I never even met his kids, parents or friends. It was like i was kept in a box. I saw him nearly everyday and now not seeing him is killing me. I feel like i want to die, Im so tired of this abandonment x

Muffy

I'm so sorry I'm still struggling myself so not great at given advise but I know that feeling so well, the pain not been able to sleep feeling sick, hoping he will change his mind and then sending him texts..... Waking up with anxiety.... Then it doesn't feel real and then anger ....then I feel humiliated that I'm doing this to myself ...... I do know one thing from this I will not be having another relationship for a very very long time I will not put myself or my son through this ever again xx

Im just so angry at myself. i was married for 10 years to a bloke who was a nasty piece. I thought this one was different and it took me a while to let him in. The hurt I feel engulfs me because I trusted him. I just want him to cuddle me and tell me everything will be alright.

I really didnt see it coming. No one expects their life to change and its what we do afterwards that counts. But at the moment i feel i cant move. He said he loved me in the morning and then said he didnt know what he wants by phone 12 hours later. Its like some cruel trick has been played on me and a part of me has been stolen

Im not sure if I will ever trust a man again Iv had quiet a lot of heartache and failed relationships...... And deceit....

i see happy couples. there must be someone out there x