this will sound so pathetic, but I need some advice and to get this out of my head. I upset someone last week at work, I was really upset about something and got myself very upset and really wasn't thinking straight, that's when I said something I shouldn't have and upset this person. The following day I apologised for what I said, I meant it and thought we had moved on, have spoken since but I do feel like she is just tolerating me and yesterday she was rather off with me, so today I decided to leave her be and didn't speak, thinking that's the best thing to do give her space and not feel like she has to speak to me. Now I am feeling really bad and think it was wrong to leave her and not speak. I get myself so upset and worked up about what I should and shouldn't do, I felt it was best to just leave it today, but now I think different, I am worrying I have upset her even more - it's ridiculous and childish I know:( other than to grow up, any advice?