Revenge is a dish best served with a BURN

[pocketsaviour]

Bwahahaha. 100% sure this fuckwit was about to try for a booty call

I can't see it. But I'm guessing you did good .

Hahah now that's funny you can just imagine him "deflating " with every word

You should take this to the small claims court & use it to get your money back. "Yes, this is him". Prick.

So he still has your money but you've managed to call him a cunt on a text message. Great revenge..

lol Argy 😄

I can't read it on my iPad. Transcript anyone?

Further convo went as follows:

Me: So I assume you're texting to make repayment arrangements?
Him: And to say hello.
Me: Hello. So, lump sum or monthly installments?
Him: Can do some lump sum in about 4 months. Or monthly from April. [Obviously made up on the spot given that April and "about 4 months" are the same...]
Despite what you and anyone else may think of me and my actions, I never intended for things to go the way they did.
[Pretty sure it was intentional when he logged into my email account and deleted the email string where he agreed to pay back the money. ]
And if it's any consolation... I sincerely regret the way things ended.
You were right when you said I would regret it.
Me: Words are wind.
Him: I hear you.

I can only hope this talk of "regret" means his new wife has found out what a cock he is and kicked him out, but I'm certainly not giving him the satisfaction of asking.

Argy I know, but I'll take what I can get. I'd love to do more but not to the point of getting myself arrested. Especially since his new wife works in the police

Great response to his text Pocket and OMG his reply! Imagining he was testing waters to assess his chances of a booty call so he was well and truly put in his place.

I recall you posting when you found out he had got married so at least you know he's still a fuckwit. He sure doesn't seem good husband material.

You still won't get that money back though

You now have proof he promised to pay. When no money materialises in April start a small claims court claim. It will cost you £60 if I recall and you will great inconvenience him and put a nice dent I his credit rating if nothing else.

At least you have an admission that he's planning on repaying his debt in writing.

Would it be worth a "I'm not discussing anything other than the debt until it's paid off, then maybe I'll find the time to talk about other things"?

You never know, he might actually be deluded enough to think you'd be interested if the money were dealt with :o

No, I mentally waved that money goodbye a long time ago. When I discovered that he'd gone into my emails and deleted the trail where he asked for the loan, I knew then he would never do the decent thing.

I've chalked it up as a VERY expensive lesson to never loan anyone money without a signed agreement in place. Or just not loan it full stop!

great slamdown though

If he had any intention to pay the money back I think he would have done so by now. I think mentally waving goodbye to the money is the right stance. If he does pay any of it back it would be a bonus. Small price to pay for not having the fucker in your life.

That is something that should be set in stone. Well done you!

It's sad that they come out with the same old shit and expect you to believe it! Just proves how utterly uncaring he is. What a twat! He's totally underestimated you.

Oh my, deleted me already?

This made me die. What did he expect? A shrine to him in your bedroom? That you now sleep on the kitchen floor because the WHOLE bedroom is now sacred to his memory? Deluded or what? Still, it does sound like karma is taking a chunk out of his bum.

After what you said he did, he's lucky you didn't delete him in real life. That would be why he borrowed all that money..... so you couldn't afford to take out a hit on him.

Nice one.

By the way, we broke up 3 years ago.

"Deleted me already" indeed!

That would be why he borrowed all that money..... so you couldn't afford to take out a hit on him.

Well done you!!!

I had to dump an indiot this weekend, and by whatever coincidence I had the most strange weekend imaginable with "exes" jumping out of the woodwork all weekend.

1. I got a message on Sunday morning at 10am...similar to this..I'd deleted the number. Was from a married man I had met ages ago (didnt tell me he was married!) and I replied "I told you to fuck off to your wife the first time around". Felt fantastic

1. Some guy who dumped me (by text) after a three month relationship because he "wasn't ready" sent me a message to say he felt he'd been too hasty and did I want to give it another go because he felt I ticked all his boxes and I wrote back "to be honest after your behavior the first time around I lost all interest in you, sorry". Felt even better.

Well done PocketSavior.

xxx

Wait! Do you have all his contact details etc, if so, why not go to small claims for your money. Get more evidence of the he money he owes!!

Outlook, brilliant responses too.

Hit man :o

It's nowhere near the scale of your responses, but I finally blocked a male friend who I'd known from work years ago, just before Christmas.

He'd say things that were almost inappropriate, things that made me feel uncomfortable. But there didn't seem to be enough to delete from Facebook.

Then one final message came. I read it, and thought "this person adds nothing to my life and occasionally raises my hackles, what would MN do?"

So I deleted him.

Glancing at other messages yesterday I noticed I have repeated message requests from him. I haven't read them.

It felt so good to close that door and accept my feelings.

No where near as awesome as everyone else's responses, but I've always been caught on my need to be polite. It was nice not to be.

I don't really know much about small claims. I do know he hasn't got any money and his credit rating is already on the floor - which was why I agreed to lend him the money rather than him taking out a loan in his name. My understanding is that even if I got a ruling in my favour (which with this text seems more likely - previously I had nothing) I would struggle to actually make him pay me anything.

He had several CCJs following him around, I found out after we split. Thankfully we never joined our finances.