Quick question - managing sexual relationship when you have children

[Dreamonastar]

I've met someone. It's not serious and nor will it ever be.

However, I do have young babies and I am wondering how best to manage this.

I was thinking it's probably easiest if he comes to mine and doesn't meet the children as they will be in bed by then. Is that OK? Or - not.

Obviously don't want to discuss this in RL!

If they were to stay overnight how would you introduce them in the morning (or at 4am if they are anything like my children when they were young)?

They are too young to be introduced

Not sure why everyone is being so prissy. Have him over, have sex, send him home before kids awake. What's the problem with that? You aren't leaving him alone with the kids.

Since when is being cautious, or even overly cautious, about your kids safety and well being 'prissy'?

So you know him fairly well and it's a FWB situation rather than a ONS? I think it's fine for him to come over after the kids are asleep. You have have a meal or watch a film or whatever, have sex and he leaves. I wouldn't have him stay overnight at this stage as it has the potential to be confusing for your children. If you want him to stay the whole night then get a babysitter and go to his.

Yeah I'm not into ONSs really.