when to invite him back to mine

[merrydoggy]

I have met a great bloke through a friend we went out to the cinema and had a great time we've both agreed to meet agin but it;s hard for me as i have 2 ds's to get a sitter - we talk regualr on msn phone / text each and i feel the only way i'll get to see him again is if invite him to my home

so what do you think???

In response to your last question why do you
think that?.

What exactly do you know about this man?.

Presumably this man knows you have two children and that their interests come first and foremost. If he does want to have a relationship with you he needs to realise that their interests are paramount to you.

Think its far too early to invite him back to your home, you barely know each other and seemingly have only met up once for a cinema date. MSNing and texting each other (why not talk instead on the phone?!) is all very well but neither of these are not ideal forms of communication if you really want to get to know each other really well.

I am also a single parent, and I havent introduced anyone to my children yet. I would want to know him better, I think. Can understand how completely frustrating it is though. Are there no teenage girls in your area who could babysit?

Can you meet up during the day for lunch/coffee instead?