Me and dh been married just over a year, a lot of things have happened between us, him lying about money, his sexual fantasies, him generally sneaking about. I do not feel he has cheated though. We have been together around 5 years. We had a big argument a while back while his family were staying over. He was very nasty in front of them this lead to him telling them (in private without me) that the argument was about them and I was saying how much I hate them! I wasn't! I was saying something about them but I don't think he should of dropped his wife into it like that? I think I've lost respect for him, I enjoy some times with him but he lets me down with sex etc as he always promises things which never happen and he's pretty boring. I feel stuck, I do think I love him but the respect and trust isn't there.