Can you confront over something that was years ago?

[Deirdresmum]

Looking for advice on this please.

Been with DP since 2009, have found evidence of sexy messages to other women, profiles on dating websites, webcamming etc.

Evidence of this from 2009-2013 so during our relationship but nothing recently.

Of course that's not to say he hasn't done it recently, just that I haven't seen evidence of that.

Or he might have stopped it. I don't know what to do.

Do I need to just put up and shut up now?

Has too much time passed for me to be able to confront him about this now?

Where do I go from here?

Jesus, he sounds a real prize prick.

Ah, yes, the no-skill approach to transference of blame. It's a bit dumb, but works through it's shock value; leaves the other person speechless.

So what now, Deirdresmum?

It's never too late to realise you're with a twat and do something about it.