Firstly today on the phone with a friend who I hardly see but speak to once a week on the phone we were talking about our children as you do she has a 4yo DD and a DS that is 4 days older than my DD2. She says "I now know what mums say about THEIR boys, I love my DD but my DS is just really special, my DP wants us to stop now we have one of each as well" Every time she phones she has to make a little comment about having one of each. I usually say I'm really happy with my 2 DDs especially with them being close in age which I am.
Then I had my mother (she of course having one of each with the perfect spacing in her opinion) saying "well you need to have another one to see if you can have a boy, a woman is not a real woman until she can have a boy WTF" if I have another baby It will be because we want another baby not to have a boy. I get angry anyone would think we were disappointed with DD2, I couldn't care less what she has between her legs. I'm dreading getting pregnant again in a way (it's a big IF right now though) in case I spend 9 months saying "I don't mind if it's not a boy"
Argh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!