Fallen in love with my casual sex partner

[lankwaifong]

Well..just what the title says really.

I have no idea how it happenned. When I started up I genuinely thought there was no way I'd ever have any feelings for him. Then it happenned.

No, he says he can't be a boyfriend to anyone right now.

The sex is amazing. We have fun together. It's wonderful and it is breaking my heart on a daily basis.

I have tried to end it, we always end up back together but admittedly I haven't tried very hard and always fall for the "I miss you" text.

Is my only option to completely cut off all contact?

I can't believe how bad I feel. It's awful when someone wants you but only partly :( would rather have him not want me at all!!

Utter bollocks. No way can you be in love with someone after seven meetings. You know hardly anything about him. For someone who "doesn't fall in love easily" you sure fall in love easily.

You are infatuated. It's normal. It hurts but you'll get over it.

It sounds like you are ready for a proper relationship rather than messing about with all this fuck buddies stuff. That's where this is coming from. You are growing up and want a proper relationship. He isn't the right man for this. Chalk him up as an excellent fuck but rubbish boyfriend and move on to someone who is at the same stage of grownupness as you.

I think Morganly is correct, you're looking for a relationship, and he is not. Please save yourself the heartache of pursuing him.

I had a similar experience a few years ago, and looking back now I see that his behaviour was very manipulative. Saying I was 'different' to every other girl to reel me in, then confirming that we would never be a proper relationship by saying things like 'I don't want to spoil what we have'

Your attachment is quite natural but it will pass.

You sure he isn’t married!?