can you ever make a go of things

[babycow38]

I have posted before, my OH went with OW and it turned my life upsidedown, i left with my two kids, they went through hell, we lived in a rented house that wasnt ours, it wasnt thier bedrooms, it wasnt home, they were failing at school. i have recently took my partner back, i moved back with the girls, into what i consider my family home. The trouble is i am much,MUCH harder now, i would never move out again, i will never put up with a prick who was unfaithfull, but as much as the girl;s are happy i feel pissed off, i have made him pay, he cant do enough for me, goes out of his way to "make up" for shagging someoneelse, i still have this icy hatred for him.

Can't believe you went back to give your kids their bedroom back - I mean, yeah they probably didn't like the new place much but hey ho, tough, they'd soon have got used to it, you can decorate, buy things, you can make any place a home, your reasons for going back just sound like an excuse because in reality you wanted to try again with him, fine, but don't expect him not to continue to be a cheat and a liar.

Your hatred for him is valid, it's because you shouldn't actually be with him anymore.

It took me time to get back on my own 2 feet financially after splitting up. I am not fully there yet, but I have more good days than bad days and the future is looking good. You too can do it.