Wwyd? Not sure if you fancy someone

[OriginalSwedishChef]

If you met someone, got on well, had a few drinks and a smooch. But then saw each other again without drinking (daytime lunch date) and didn't feel much attraction, would you see them again? You find them attractive in pics and get on well with them, but you're both a bit nervy/shy around new people and their behaviour round you is a bit dopey and wet

I'm late twenties btw - not that it matters. But it definitely wasn't a case of settling.

If you decide to meet him again to see how you get on and whethwr you feel attraction don't bloody worry about "leading him on", that's a worrying way to think about it!

My first date with DP we both got scandalously drunk and had a lot of rampant sex. The next date neither of us had a drink and were naturally more nervous and a bit shy (something we were decidely not on the first date!) It did give us both pause for thought i think however, it went from strength to strength and we are over a year down the line together . Stick with it I'd say.

I think imagine you were given big inheritance tomorrow - would you still have another date with him?

I know a number of females who get attracted to the idea of someone being able to provide for them. Imagine he doesn't have to tick that box and is solvent and financially independent - would you still want to get to know him more?