I've basically just become a nanny. My life consists of sorting out the kids and going to work whilst my OH always makes time to go out with his friends, play computer games and basically act like a teenager never telling me what's going on whilst having a secret wank in the bathroom. We had sex once last year and 3 times the year before. He'd much rather watch porn secretly on his phone. I've tried to talk about it, I've even burst into tears. When I make an effort he usually notices but then decides its not good enough to tear him away from the computer or he makes hints about how tired he is. He does make little gestures during the day but I don't appreciate having my boob grabbed when it NEVER actually leads to anything and he just then sods off with his mates. We do nothing together and we have nothing in common anymore besides the kids. The constant nights on my own in tears makes me feel like it's come to a natural end but think I'd be selfish to break it off especially as a break would mean I would definitely move a couple of hours drive away nearer to my family. I've talked about it many times before and sometimes it changes but always just goes back and he makes little to no effort on the relationship. I don't really know what to do.