Hello firstly please accept me as a stay at home dad not a mum!
My partner has to cut along story short cut us loose to run off with a man we know as a friend who she has obviously admired for years. There is alot to it and he is taking advantage to some degree for a few reasons and she has got a man who has never shown interest in her before now but she finds exciting and handsome.
I am devastated and just want her back, I know that's daft to some but I love her Rightly or wrongly am thinking of a little revenge. Friends have suggested a few ideas but most I think would just drive her and this other man closer e.g. brick through window type acts.
The other 2 suggestions is a friend calling or leaving a voice mail posing as A) another woman who he is seeing. B)a prostitute he is seeing and has been doing something horrid like not playing safe.
She runs a business so has a webpage the idea is to say "I know you work at X and do Y there" her number and the numbers of the 4 other ladies she works with are listed. The call could be placed to any of them as they all do separate roles so by mentioning what she does would make it obvious the target was her.
Anyway it's all a little sordid and sad. I feel angry but don't know if either idea would actually be swallowed or if its even a good thing to do.
Sorry for going on just sad and angry