I'm pregnant by a mm. I didn't know he was married initially but found it hard to let go at the end and I do still have feelings for him.
I have recently been diagnosed with bi- polar and Mild borderline personality disorder. I'm not saying that to excuse why I stayed with him just to give a background on my situation. I had a scan today and the mm said, 'you need to get rid of it now or you will never see me again. I want you to get rid so we can stay together'. Which is what he has been saying since I found out ( see prev thread). I wanted to be kind and keep the peace but I found out from another single parent today at the nursery that he has been messaging her on POF! She wa talking about the guy she was chatting to and said two or 3 things that struck me as 1. He comes from a very small town that her chap also came from and 2. His first name was the same. I said to her- oh that sounds like someone I know and she showed me a pic- it was him.
They have been chatting for 6 months and last month he was asking her to meet him for sex, said he was a single dad blah blah blah, the same shit he told me.
I'm devastated, I knew he was a lying shit but this is unbelievable.
A few times when we were together he accused me of seeing other people and now I know that's exactly what he was doing.
I feel terrible for his actual GF and kids as she appears to be clueless!
I need to fuck him of ASAP but I appreciate that he may in the future want to see his child.
He is texting me saying he loves me and doesn't want to loose me etc etc
I want to end it full stop- do I send a polite text and then block his number etc or just ignore completely??
We were going to meet on Saturday to talk so I could tell him face to face but tbh I'm scared I'll just punch him square in the face!
Help guys please!