It will be myn and my husbands wedding anniversary soon and will have been married 6 years. I didn't get my husband a christmas card at christmas, as I personally didn't think he would get me one as I usually have to remind him every year. We was talking about it being our anniversary soon and he asked if I had anything planned. I said no and money is tight as we are having to swap kids rooms around to make room for another due in march. He then said I wonder if you will even get me a card or just not bother like christmas. I thought to myself why can't you plan anything for our anniversary and usually I have to remind you to get a card for me or even to do anything for any occasion for me. I have just given up and he finally goes off his own back and gets me a card without prompting, but then seems upset when I didn't get him one. I mean for christmas I brought him something he really wanted and he was chuffed with it. I got £50 in boots vouchers where I had no use for them. A waste of £50. Why couldn't he get me something I liked I gave enough hints, its like he didn't give any thought to me but is making digs about christmas cards.