Please be honest with your opinions. I am a working mum of two older kids at uni. DH is older then me also works full time, he earns more money than me. I do all the cooking, cleaning, pay the bills, from joint account, ironing,walk the dogs. DH does nothing unless asked. I also look after stepdad with severe dementia and real dad with serious health issues. DH will not go out anywhere, will not go for a walk etc. Not too bothered have lovely friends walk the dogs, meet once a month for Indian etc. Today asked DH to fix handle on door, which he did, however needed painting as handle different size. Asked him if he was going to paint round handle. He flew into a rage said I was a fking t. I was fuming said he never contributed any thing to the house, maintenance/upkeep wise, I like to live a clean and tidy house. We are now not speaking. I am fed up of spending every weekend evening sat watching tv while he goes to bed at 10am. He never speaks, not just to me but anybody. I talk to everybody and am feeling so lonely. He buys no presents at Christmas I do everything. I am fed up of being the doormat, kids expect washing, ironing etc. Should I just leave or stay and face a life of boredom with an a Dh who does not appreciate me. First post so thanks for listening.