Had two dates with same guy, first one great, second one bit awkward as I was ill and we were both staying off wine which had helped break the ice beforehand. Anyway we spoke about seeing each other again and he seemed very into the idea (asked me a few times, said how nice I looked etc) but then after second date I wasn't so sure - it all ended a bit strangely and I was worried he felt I wasn't that into him physically (I am but was feeling ill and out of it).
Anyway we texted to thank each other for the evening and I asked him to let me know if he wanted to do something in early Jan when I'm next in his city. No reply, but he's seen it.
This was only a few hours ago but I'm a bit offended I have gone out on a limb and he's not said anything - not even to decline! I was in two minds whether or not to ask and now really wishing I hadn't...