what is he playing at?

[AMAZINWOMAN]

I phoned my ex last week. He was in work and busy, so he said call back in 30 minutes. So I did, we spoke but he was busy in work and said call me back on my lunch if you want, so I did. But phone was off.

Last week i sent him a text inviting him for drink, he said no. When I called and asked him, he said OK.

He defo has very strong feelings for me, but what is he playing at!!!

sounds like he's avoiding you to me and said "ok" to a drink as you were on the phone and it wasnt as easy to brush you off that way.

You're doing the chasing. Stop. Then you'll find out if he really wants to see you.

How do you know he has strong feelings for you? How long ago did you split up? Why did you slit up? Are you looking to get back together? If so.. why?

It doesn't sound as if he's got strong feelings for you at all, from your post. He seems to be avoiding you - but is probably braver when he texts you because it's easier to say no that way.

This will probably sound a bit rude but it sounds as if you're being rather pushy - maybe you should back off a bit? See how he feels without you making all the moves.

(Jus trying to get a 'take' on the situation!)