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So much happening at once!

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Theoldcauliflower · 09/12/2015 21:38

On Sunday I found out my 13 year old daughter had been on line talking to lots of people in a sexual way, it was bad, I've taken away phone and iPad till I work out what to do!
I've recently took myself off antidepressants and feel a lot better for it! Thought I was improving a lot even my dm has mentioned how happy I look!
Dp home tonight we had a bottle of wine each I made tea, I've explained when his dd comes at the weekend my dd phone will not be allowed to be used, as its confiscated!
Massive argument that it's not his dd fault , that he's being victimised coz he doesn't want to in his words "have his ear chewed of" by a 14 year old!
Then I'm told " go and get back on your tablets" coz I've dared to disagree!
I've struggled with my mh for a while but was feeling much better, feel back to square one!
I've been so supportive with so many things going on in his life, I'm just not getting it back, or am I being stupid??

OP posts:
Cabrinha · 09/12/2015 23:18

I can't what your "D"P says.
What do you think?
Do you think it's worth calling 101 for advice about reporting?
Or perhaps the NSPCC?

Your boyfriend tells you things are all your fault and you're crazy...

A boyfriend, of all the people in the world, should be your cheerleader.

And you know, sometimes my sister comes off her ADs and she needs a gentle, loving, supportive cuddle and the suggestion that she might be as well to chat to her GP. Because she has ditched them too quickly in the past - her own view, in retrospect. Her husband doesn't take mean swipes at her. He gently says he knows she wants to come off them, but she has behaved in x or y way, which is something the meds have previously helped with (e.g. She gets quite paranoid) and would she think about chatting to the GP again?
He has her back.
He doesn't say "you're nuts, get back on the pills".

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